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Many PFLAG chapters have found that support
group guidelines that are read, distributed or posted at the beginning of
every meeting are critical to providing a safe space for people to share
concerns. These guidelines can also be helpful in dealing with disruptive
people - if they are consistently violating the guidelines, they can be
asked to leave.
Here are some suggestions:
1.
Our support groups focus on problems and feelings in regard to coming out
to, or relationships with families, friends, and our larger communities.
We understand that we are all here to better understand our own feelings
about sexual orientation and gender identity and to support each other as
we learn to embrace our own sexual or gender identity or that of our loved
ones.
2.
Confidentiality is a top priority. Nothing said in this room will leave
this room, nor will people be pressed to share more information than they
are comfortable with here or after the meeting.
3.
We provide support by listening carefully, sharing our own stories, and
relating our own problem solving experiences. We are sensitive to each
person's stage in the acceptance process.
4.
We each speak from our own experiences, and respect the experiences of
others.
5.
We are supportive rather than confrontational. Anyone who is uncomfortable
may make this known to the facilitator. Everyone will be given the chance
to speak. In addition, each person is asked to be conscious of the amount
of time they are using to allow others to speak. No one person is
permitted to monopolize the conversation.
6.
We are considerate of the group and do not have side discussions. Each
person's remarks are important to the whole group.
7.
The facilitator will intervene when the guidelines are not followed and
redirect the discussion.
8.
Our main concern is to create a supportive atmosphere for all group
participants. Thank you for helping to support the family feeling we have
at our support meetings.
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